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Human is a social creature, which can’t live alone without other human. (Well, this according to the theory which I learn in primary school) Well, to make it short, we all need friends in our life. We won’t feel lonely if we have our friends around us. We can share everything with our friends. Friends can give positive effects and also negative effects. Like example :
If we make friends with smoker, well sooner or later we will become one of them, unless there’s some people who have strong self-defends to make them still unaffected and maybe can change them to be a non-smoker, but most of them will be dragged into being a smoker.
If we make friends with highly motivated people (How the hell that words come from, lol), we could either get influence by their way of living or we are the once who influenced them.
So the point is there’s nothing wrong with making friends as long as you know how to guard yourself not to be dragged down because nowadays it’s very different to find a real friend. You never know what a friend could do to you. Even though you have known them for a very long time. There are friends who can cheat on you or betray you even you have known them for a very long time. Maybe they ‘play’ with your boyfriend or girlfriend behind your back. Or maybe they talk bad about you behind your back. Or maybe they spread untrue story or rumour about you. Or maybe they reveal your darkest secret.
So making friends is very complicated, well but of course not all friends are bad. That’s why ‘they’ ( I don’t know who are they) invented the word ‘best friend forever’ or ‘BFF’.
They are the one who will always be there for you, no matter when you are sad or happy or in a big trouble. They always support you, give courage to you, they are the one who make your life brighter.
So, making friends is like gambling in Las Vegas ( hahaha….why here, gambling can be done everywhere) You never know what card you are going to get, a ‘good’ card or a ‘bad’ card. Well, the decision is in your own hand.
If we make friends with smoker, well sooner or later we will become one of them, unless there’s some people who have strong self-defends to make them still unaffected and maybe can change them to be a non-smoker, but most of them will be dragged into being a smoker.
If we make friends with highly motivated people (How the hell that words come from, lol), we could either get influence by their way of living or we are the once who influenced them.
So the point is there’s nothing wrong with making friends as long as you know how to guard yourself not to be dragged down because nowadays it’s very different to find a real friend. You never know what a friend could do to you. Even though you have known them for a very long time. There are friends who can cheat on you or betray you even you have known them for a very long time. Maybe they ‘play’ with your boyfriend or girlfriend behind your back. Or maybe they talk bad about you behind your back. Or maybe they spread untrue story or rumour about you. Or maybe they reveal your darkest secret.
So making friends is very complicated, well but of course not all friends are bad. That’s why ‘they’ ( I don’t know who are they) invented the word ‘best friend forever’ or ‘BFF’.
They are the one who will always be there for you, no matter when you are sad or happy or in a big trouble. They always support you, give courage to you, they are the one who make your life brighter.
So, making friends is like gambling in Las Vegas ( hahaha….why here, gambling can be done everywhere) You never know what card you are going to get, a ‘good’ card or a ‘bad’ card. Well, the decision is in your own hand.
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