Narcism & Confidence

Last post I was talking about self-esteem and confidence, so now I'm going to talk about confidence and narcism. Confidence like what I've said before, is the way we respect ourselves, the way we believe that we are capable of doing something. While narcism is more more too too over confidence about ourselves. (hehehe...am I exaggerating???)
And the good news is I'm on of them (hahahaha...). Well, I don't really know since when I became narcist. Maybe since I realize that I'm not bad-looking....wkwkwkwkwk....(am I too confident??? )
Yeah that's what narcist people always say (I'm not bad-looking or I'm good looking) . And one thing that narcist people always do, that is taking his/her own pictures. Most of the narcist people (including me...of course...hehehe...) always think that they are not bad looking or at least still average looking. So they like to take pictures of themselves and maybe do a little retouching with photoshop (if they know how to use it or if they don't they asked their friend to do it for them) to make it look better...(hehehehe....)
But I think nowadays mostly people are narcist and confidence about themselves. They dare to speak up their mind, not like in the past while most people are still ashame or shy or not confident to do something. Maybe it's all because of reformation and the globalization, people realize that they don't have to be ashame to do something anymore. And I believe also that no one is born to be bad looking or what. Everyone is a unique individual, and everyone have something that makes him/her special. Being a good-looking poeple doesn't guarantee that you will succeed in life.
So...just be yourself.....

Good Friend Or Bad Friend

Human is a social creature, which can’t live alone without other human. (Well, this according to the theory which I learn in primary school) Well, to make it short, we all need friends in our life. We won’t feel lonely if we have our friends around us. We can share everything with our friends. Friends can give positive effects and also negative effects. Like example :
If we make friends with smoker, well sooner or later we will become one of them, unless there’s some people who have strong self-defends to make them still unaffected and maybe can change them to be a non-smoker, but most of them will be dragged into being a smoker.
If we make friends with highly motivated people (How the hell that words come from, lol), we could either get influence by their way of living or we are the once who influenced them.
So the point is there’s nothing wrong with making friends as long as you know how to guard yourself not to be dragged down because nowadays it’s very different to find a real friend. You never know what a friend could do to you. Even though you have known them for a very long time. There are friends who can cheat on you or betray you even you have known them for a very long time. Maybe they ‘play’ with your boyfriend or girlfriend behind your back. Or maybe they talk bad about you behind your back. Or maybe they spread untrue story or rumour about you. Or maybe they reveal your darkest secret.
So making friends is very complicated, well but of course not all friends are bad. That’s why ‘they’ ( I don’t know who are they) invented the word ‘best friend forever’ or ‘BFF’.
They are the one who will always be there for you, no matter when you are sad or happy or in a big trouble. They always support you, give courage to you, they are the one who make your life brighter.
So, making friends is like gambling in Las Vegas ( hahaha….why here, gambling can be done everywhere) You never know what card you are going to get, a ‘good’ card or a ‘bad’ card. Well, the decision is in your own hand.